Thursday, November 27, 2008

Should the love relationship between student and teacher be banned?



Student teacher love affair should be banned for all of the places. Because it will causes a lot of disadvantages to the students.


The first reason is about the professional. Teacher and student is a professional occupation. So they should focus on their own work. By the way, teacher are supposed to have parental relationship with the students, not love or any private relationship. It also very unfair to the other students. For an example, if the teacher date with a student, then the teacher sure will give higher marks to the student in exam or anything else.


The second reason is enforcement. If this kind of love relationship is allowed, then the teacher might want to date with the student but what will happen if the student refuse to it? The teacher may figure out some way to force the student to date with them such as fail the student in the exam. So what can the student do? The student don't have freedom anymore. This can consider as win-lose situation. it means that teacher is the winner because they can date with the student but the student is loser because they need to sacrifice themselves so that they will not fail in the exam.


The third reason is innocent. Actually the student are still very young. They know nothing but compare to teacher, teacher of course is more mature and know the world more. So the teacher should know where to draw the line. If teacher didn't draw the line well and causes the student in love with them, then the student's future will destroy. Because they can't concentrate on their study anymore. What if marriage happen? they can't even manage a proper living hood right now.


The fourth reason is the mockery of trust. If there are love affair between student and teacher, then the school's reputation sure will drop because the parents won't trust the school anymore and they won't let their children to study in that school. The reason is they afraid that their children will involve in this kind of love affair. Not even will damage the student's reputation but also damage the reputation of the student's family.


In the nutshell, the student teacher love affair should be banned for the sake of the students and their future.


*Special thanks to all of you that help me a lot in preparing my presentation slides.
Thanks to Yuan, Steven and Jason*

4 comments:

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Anonymous said...

I do understand what you're saying, and it's 100% true, but I just need help - my teacher and i are so in love that breaking up would be hell. And I know we have to, even though we both don't want to.

SB said...

I respect your point of views however why would you or anyone be granted the permission to put a tag on love relationship of a teacher and a student without first discussing both the aspects . Its like you are telling the truth but half truth , its like saying Gays or lesbians should not be allowed to date . If a student gets old enough to vote and elect the law makers then who are the law makers to decide who the student sees a perfect partner in . uppose there has to be atleHave you ever heard of such things as "Love in first sight" , when you see the grand actors potraying the scene you pay huge respect to them however nobody actually appreciates it when it could/would / or has happened in reality . Are teachers not human beings and beings who deserve an equal opportunity to choosing their life partner . Forget about teachers and students , have there not been many Employer and Employee relations which were successful ? Although i havn't done my homework but I do suppose there has to be atleast a handful of Teacher Student Relations that were successful. ----Since presumtive arguments were provided in favour , Assumtive arguments have been been provided against. Regards SB (A Teacher who deeply fell in love with is student , & it did work )